Uma kukhona izincwadi kulezi zinsuku ezingatholakala kuzo zonke izinhlobo zamashalofu ezincwadi, yizincwadi zokuzisiza nezomoya. Nakuba wonke umuntu enezintandokazi zakhe kanye nemibono yakhe ihlukahluka kakhulu , akunakuphikwa ukuthi ziningi futhi zithengiswa kahle.
Ezinye zibhalwe ngababhali abaziwayo kanye nodokotela bezengqondo abadumile kanye nodokotela bezifo zengqondo , kanti ezinye ziba yindaba ekhulunywa kakhulu ngisho noma zingabhalwanga nguchwepheshe wezokwelapha ohamba phambili emkhakheni wazo. Ezinye zazo ziqinisekisa impumelelo nenjabulo ngokusekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho kombhali, umkhuba owaziwa nangokuthi ukuqeqesha . Yingakho kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwencwadi enobungcweti besayensi kanye nencwadi eveza nje ukuthi impilo ingaba yinhle kangakanani uma sishintsha umbono wethu. Lapha uzothola ukukhethwa kwalezi zinhlobo zezincwadi, ezinye zezincwadi ezithengiswa kakhulu eminyakeni yamuva.
Amandla we-Now
Le ncwadi iwuhambo lokuvuka nokuzazi, kodwa inesixwayiso sokuthi idinga ukulahla ubugovu, kanye nezinkolelo ezifundwa kukho konke ukuphila. Amandla Kanje asimema ukuba sishiye konke ngemuva ukuze sixhumane nengqikithi yethu . Njengoba ikhava yayo isho, iyisiqondiso sokukhanya okungokomoya futhi ingaba yindlela yokukhulula imithwalo ngaleyo ndlela sikwazi ukuvela futhi sibe yiyo ngempela . Kuyisimangaliso sezincwadi ezingokomoya eziye zaheha bonke abayifundile. U-Eckhart Tolle akashiyi muntu ongenandaba.
Indela Elithengise I-Ferrari Yakhe
Noma iyiphi incwadi ebhalwe nguRobin Sharma ( The 5 AM Club ) ingaba lapha. I-Monk Who Sold His Ferrari iyinganekwane engokomoya ezama ukuchaza ukuthi kuyini ukuvuselelwa komuntu siqu . Iqokomisa izingqikithi ezifana nenhlalakahle, ibhalansi, isibindi, kanye nenjabulo yokuphila. Futhi ifundisa konke lokhu ngohambo oluyingqayizivele lokuthola izinto ezintsha, oluthathwe nguJulian Mantle, umlingiswa ogcina edayise konke ukuze aye eNdiya.
Imikhuba engu-7 yabantu abaphumelela kakhulu
Lena ingenye yezincwadi ezisebenza kahle kakhulu zokuthuthukiswa kobungcweti kanye nebhizinisi. Ngendlela ecacile neqondile, uStephen R. Covey uchaza amaphuzu ayisikhombisa empumelelo yobungcweti, kodwa okokuqala nokubaluleke kakhulu, ngokugxila nokuthuthukisa ubuntu bakho bangaphakathi. UCovey uchaza ukuthi lokhu kuyisisekelo sokuguqulwa noshintsho ezindaweni ezifana nobuholi, ukuxhumana, kanye nobuciko. Abantu kumele bahlakulele ubuntu babo kanye nobuntu babo ukuze baguqule indawo abakuyo kanye nabantu ababazungezile, futhi le ncwadi inikeza iziqondiso zokusebenzisa lezi zimiso.
Imikhuba ye-athomu
Incwadi engavamile engashintsha impilo yakho uma uzimisele ukushintsha. Isebenzisa indlela egxile ekusebenziseni imikhuba kancane kancane ngaphandle kokwenza izinguquko ezinkulu ezingaphazamisa ngisho nomuntu ozimisele kakhulu. Iphinde ihlaziye ukuthi imikhuba isebenza kanjani ukuze siyiqonde kangcono futhi sikwazi ukuqala nokunamathela kuyo. *Imikhuba ye-Atomic* yakhiwe yimikhuba eminingi emincane, okubonakala sengathi ayiphazamisi indlela yakho yokuphila, kodwa yiyona eqalayo. Iseluleko sayo sikusiza ukuthi uqonde ukuthi izinqumo ozenzayo namuhla, noma ngabe zincane kangakanani, zingaholela enguqukweni eqinisekile empilweni yakho.
Ukufuna Komuntu Injongo
Le ndaba iyiqiniso. Futhi akunakwenzeka ukuthi ikushiye ungathinteki. Okuhlangenwe nakho kukaViktor Frankl, udokotela wezifo zengqondo nombhali, kwamsiza ukuthi athuthukise indlela yakhe ebizwa ngokuthi i-logotherapy , ephakamisa intando yokuphila njengomgomo wokugcina lapho ebhekene nanoma yikuphi ukuhlupheka noma ukungabi nabulungisa okukhona. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe njengesiboshwa samaNazi ngesikhathi seMpi Yezwe II kwaba yisibonelo senkolelo-mbono yakhe yokufuna incazelo, lokho okwenza impilo ibe yigugu njalo. Lokhu kusobala kule ncwadi, futhi lena yindlela uDkt. Frankl ayisebenzisa ngesikhathi sokubonisana kwakhe njengodokotela wezifo zengqondo.
Eshaqisayo, enyakazayo futhi eveza obala.
Izivumelwano ezine
Incwadi esiye yahlobisa amashalofu ezitolo zezincwadi isikhathi eside futhi iyaqhubeka nokuguqula izimpilo zabantu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kudlula iminyaka emingaki. Izivumelwano Ezine , ezibhalwe udokotela waseMexico uMiguel Ruiz, iyincwadi eletha ukuhlakanipha kwamaToltec, impucuko yangaphambi kweSpanishi yaseMesoamerica, kithi namuhla. Iyisiqondiso esiwusizo sokuhlanza umoya ngemithetho yayo ebalulekile : yiba ongenaphutha ngezwi lakho, ungathathi lutho njengolwakho, ungacabangi, futhi wenze konke okusemandleni akho. Yifunde, kodwa uma usuyifundile kakade, ilungele ukuyifunda kabusha.
Indlela yokwenza izinto ezinhle zenzeke kuwe
Abantu abaningi kungenzeka ukuthi abayiqondanga kahle le ncwadi ngoba nje bengayifundi. Kodwa-ke, ngenxa yempumelelo yayo, abaningi sebevele bathole ukuthi uMarian Rojas Estapé wayesho ukuthini ngokuthi " indlela yokwenza izinto ezinhle zenzeke kuwe ." Ukhuthaza okuphambene nokuhlala ekhaya ulinde lelo thuba lomsebenzi okade ulindwe, ukuze leyo nkinga obulokhu uyicabanga ukuthi izoxazululwa, noma ukuze uthole umlingani ofanele. Ukuze ukuchuma, inhlalakahle, noma injabulo kungene empilweni yakho, ukuthatha isinyathelo esifanele sokwenza ushintsho kubalulekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, yincwadi enendlela eqinile yesayensi evame ukuhlukanisa umbhali, enikeza iseluleko esiwusizo nesifundisayo, futhi iletha umqondo wokwaneliseka nendlela yokukufeza eduze nekhaya.
Imfihlo
Imfihlo iyiqoqo lokuhlakanipha kwasendulo okwaziwa yizihlakaniphi ezimbalwa ezikhethiwe kanye nabacabangi emlandweni wonke. Ngale ncwadi, efihliwe futhi efiselekayo ngenxa yokwethulwa kwayo kanye nokuqukethwe kwayo, uzothola ukuthi ungayithola kanjani inala kanye nokuchuma kuzo zonke izici zokuphila . Le ncwadi iqukethe ulwazi olubalulekile umbhali wayo, uRhonda Byrne, aqinisekisa ukuthi ungavusa futhi uguqule impilo yakho ngokusebenzisa amandla angaphakathi kuwe.
Ubaba ocebile, ubaba ompofu
Le ncwadi ethengiswa kakhulu ngezimali zomuntu siqu isize abantu abaningi ukuthi bashintshe umbono wabo ngemali. Iphonsela inselelo izinkolelo ezivamile mayelana nezezimali futhi yembula ukuthi imindeni ingaba kanjani insika noma umthwalo empumelelweni yezezimali . Umbhali, uRobert T. Kiyosaki, uthi abazali abacebile bafundisa ukuphathwa kwemali ngendlela ehluke kakhulu kunabazali abavela ezigabeni eziphakathi neziphansi. Eqinisweni, ezimweni eziningi, lesi sihloko asikho nhlobo; empeleni, le ncwadi iphinde ibe yisicelo semfundo yezezimali . Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngeziqondiso ezingajwayelekile, singaguqula umbono wethu ngemali nokuthi siyikhiqiza kanjani ukuze sifinyelele umgomo wokugcina: impilo enokuthula nephephile.
