Umhlahlandlela Wabaholi: Izincwadi Ezinhle Kakhulu Zobuholi
Kule nkathi yohwebo, bayanda abantu abazichaza njengabaholi. Kodwa uyini ngempela umholi Yini emenza ahluke kwabanye? NgokweRoyal Spanish Academy, ngokwencazelo yayo yokuqala, umholi ngumuntu oqondisa noma ohola iqembu. Kodwa-ke, namuhla siyazi ukuthi ubuholi budlula kude ubuholi obulula.
Lokhu kwenzeka ngoba akufani nokuba umholi ukuba umholi omuhle. Okwakamuva Ngokuvamile kuqondwa njengomuntu okwazi ukuhola iqembu futhi aliqondise ngempumelelo.. Lokhu kusho ukubaqondisa kuzo zonke izinyathelo, ukwazi wonke amalungu ethimba lakho nokwazi ukuthi ungawagqugquzela kanjani ukuthi asebenze ngempumelelo. Ukuze uqonde lo mqondo, sikushiyela izincwadi ezingcono kakhulu ezikhuluma ngobuholi.
Izincwadi ezinhle kakhulu ezake zabhalwa ngobuholi
Ingqikithi yobuholi: Izihluthulelo zokusetshenziswa kobuholi kwangempela nokweqiniso (2016), ngu-Hugo Landolfi
Enye yezinto ezingavamile kakhulu zalesi sihloko ukuthi kushiya eceleni omunye wemibono evamile ngobuholi. Lesi yisimo esibeka umholi esikhundleni somshayeli oqondisa umphakathi oyimpumputhe endaweni ongayazi kangako. Ngalo mqondo, abalandeli bashiywa njengohlobo oluthile inhloko yabantu ngaphandle kokucabanga okujulile.
Lesi simo senzeka kaningi ngabaholi mbumbulu bezepolitiki, bezenkolo nabezamabhizinisi, okucatshangwa ukuthi bakhanyiselwe abakholelwa ukuthi bazi kangcono kunanoma ubani omunye isiphetho esifanele umhlaba wonke. Emsebenzini wakhe, Umbhali ulungiselela ukuchaza umehluko phakathi komphathi ozikhukhumezayo nomholi wangempela., lesi sakamuva siyisidalwa esizithuthukisayo ukuze kamuva sisize abanye.
Izingcaphuno zikaHugo Landolfi
- «Ukuba umholi kusho ukusiza abanye abantu ukuthi bathole indlela yabo yokuphila futhi bathathe indlela yokuyifinyelela. Ubuholi abukhona ukuhola abantu ngobumpumputhe ngokombono womholi kodwa wukuthola umbono ongaphakathi kumuntu ngamunye nokubasiza ukuthi bahambe endleleni eholela kuye.
- “Kumele sikuqonde ukuthi bonke ubunzima obusiphazamisayo kumele sisekwe ukuze senze lokho. Uma singakuvumeli, abukho ubunzima obuyokwazi ukusivimba.
Iminyaka engu-32 yokuba ngumpetha kwezamabhizinisi (2009), ngu-Earvin Johnson
Le ncwadi yabhalwa ngu-Earvin “Magic” Johnson, omunye wabadlali abangcono kakhulu i-NBA eyake yaba nabo, kanye nendaba yempumelelo. Ngamakhasi omsebenzi wakhe, Umbhali ukhuluma ngezinyathelo ezingama-32 azithatha ukuze akhuthaze kuye umbono wokuzinikela owawuzomholela ekuhlangabezaneni ngempumelelo nazo zonke izinjongo zakhe.. Usomabhizinisi futhi uhlinzeka ngezinsiza eziyisisekelo zethiyori kulabo abanentshisekelo.
Phakathi kwazo: ukuthi liqalwa kanjani ibhizinisi kanye nendlela yokulixhasa ngezimali, ukulikhulisa, ukumaketha nokulenza likhule ngokuqhubekayo iminyaka eminingi. Lona umbhalo ofundeka ngokushesha, kodwa hhayi okhuthazayo.. I-charm yayo itholakala emlandweni wayo futhi eqinisweni lokuthi, nakuba kungeyena wonke umuntu onamakhono namathuba afanayo, ngokutadisha, isiyalo nomzamo, abaningi bangafinyelela impumelelo yobungcweti.
Earvin Johnson Quotes
- "Impumelelo ayilinganiswa ngokunqoba, kodwa ngenani lezikhathi osuvuke ngazo ngemuva kokuhlulwa."
- "Imali nempumelelo kuhle, kodwa ingcebo yeqiniso isempilweni kanye nobudlelwano."
- “Ithalente likunikeza ithuba, kodwa wukusebenza kanzima nokuzinikela okukulethela impumelelo.”
- "Ngifuna ngempela abantu bazi ukuthi ngisebenze kanzima, kanzima kakhulu, ukuze ngifike lapho ngikhona namuhla ... lokhu akwenzekanga ngobusuku obubodwa."
Izindlela eziyi-100 zokukhuthaza abanye (2007), nguSteve Chandler noScott Richardson
Lo mbhalo cishe uzolutha kunoma yimuphi usomabhizinisi, umphathi noma isikhulu esithanda izinhlu, ikakhulukazi uma kubhekwa ukuthi yilowo oneminikelo yangempela. Le ncwadi iphakamisa uchungechunge lwamathuluzi namasu okuphatha ukuxhumana ngokugomela., ngaphezu kokufundisa izindlela eziphumelela kakhulu zokwenza izinqumo ezibalulekile.
Nokho, umsebenzi awugcini lapho. Njengoba ihloselwe izethameli zebhizinisi kakhulu, Izindlela eziyi-100 zokukhuthaza abanye ikhuluma ngezihloko ezifana nokuphathwa kwesevisi yamakhasimende, isihloko esivame ukudidaniswa nokukhohlisa kanye nokuphathwa ngokungathembeki kwezithameli eziqondiwe lapho, empeleni, lokhu kufanele kusekelwe ekwakheni ubudlelwano bangempela lapho unikeza isevisi.
Steve Chandler Quotes
- "Abanye abantu basebenzisa ulimi ukuchaza impilo abayiphilayo, kanti abanye basebenzisa ulimi ukudala impilo abayiphilayo."
- “Sonke sinemicabango emibi. Umehluko phakathi komuntu ngokuyinhloko onethemba lokuhle futhi lowo ngokuyinhloko ongenalo ithemba ukuthi umuntu onethemba ufunda ukuba impikiswano enhle. Uma usuqaphela ukusebenza kokuba nethemba empilweni yakho, ungafunda ukubekela inselele imicabango yakho engenathemba.
Izizwe: Sidinga WENA ukuthi usihole (2024), nguSeth Godin
Abantu bebelokhu befuna ukuba ngowesizwe, kubonakala kuyingxenye yengqikithi yethu njengezilwane ezinengqondo.. Lesi yisenzakalo esishiye uphawu lwaso emlandweni, futhi namuhla, kunanini ngaphambili, sibonga i-intanethi kanye nezinkundla zokuxhumana, amathuluzi afiphaze imingcele yokuxhumana, okuvumela ukudluliswa kolwazi nezindlela zokucabanga.
Inkinga ngalokhu kuziphendukela kwemvelo ukuthi sekunzima kakhulu ukugqama phakathi kosomabhizinisi abakhulu, futhi kulapho le ncwadi iqukethe umnikelo wayo omkhulu kubafundi. Umbhali, uyazi ngale nkinga, inikeza ulwazi oludingekayo ukuze wazi ukuthi ungaba kanjani umholi, thonya uquqaba futhi uqondise umphakathi endleleni yokukhiqiza ephumelelayo.
Izingcaphuno zikaSeth Godin
- “Ukuntuleka koshintsho kuwusongo olukhulu kunoshintsho ngokwalo. "Ukunethezeka kungaholela ekuzitheleleni, futhi ukukhululeka kuyabulala."
- “Isihluthulelo sokwehluleka ukuzama ukujabulisa wonke umuntu. Isihluthulelo sempumelelo ukuqaphela ukuthi awukwazi ukujabulisa wonke umuntu nokuba nesibindi sokwenza izinguquko ezingase zicasule abanye ekuqaleni.
- “Umsebenzi wethu wukuxhumana nabantu, ukuxhumana nabo ngendlela ebashiya bengcono kunangesikhathi sibathola, sebekwazi ukufinyelela lapho befuna ukuya khona.”
Inhlanzi! Ukusebenza kahle kweqembu kusekhonweni lalo lokugqugquzela (2001), nguStephen C. Lundin noHarry Paul
Le ncwadi ihluke kancane kuzo zonke ezinye ezikulolu hlu, ngoba Ababhali ukuze bachaze ubuholi bazinike isikhathi ukwakha inganekwane. Uma uthanda izindaba, umbhalo ungacebisa kakhulu. Umlingiswa oyinhloko uMary Jane, owesifazane owela kulokho okubizwa ngokuthi "umgodi womsebenzi oyisidina" ngenxa yendawo yokusebenza engakhuthazwa futhi engenanjongo.
Ekhathele yilesi simo, umphathi uMary Jane unquma ukuzihlaziya yena nethimba lakhe ukuze abone ukuthi bangathuthuka kanjani. Maduze, Zitholele isitolo sezinhlanzi esigcwele ukukhanya namandla amahle, bese ungena lapho ukuze uqonde indlela yaso yokusebenza. Ube esehlangana noLonnie, omambulela “izimfihlo ezine zokudala izindawo ezikhiqiza kakhulu nezikhuthazayo.”
Izilinganiso zika-Stephen C. Lundin
- “Lapho sikhetha ukuthanda umsebenzi esiwenzayo, singafinyelela umkhawulo wethu wenjabulo, injongo nokwaneliseka nsuku zonke.”
- "Impumelelo incike ekukhetheni esikwenzayo: ukukhetha isimo sethu sengqondo, ukuphila ukuphila ngenjabulo, ukuba khona nabanye nokwenza abantu bajabule ukusibona."
Ubuholi Bokuziphatha: Inselele Yesikhathi Sethu (2013), u-Emiliano Gomez Lopez
Esinye sezici ezibaluleke kakhulu zobuholi—futhi okungavami ukuthi kukhulunywe ngaso—izimiso zokuziphatha. Ngenxa yalokhu, umbhali uchaza ukuthi enye yezinto ezibalulekile ngomholi, izimiso zokuziphatha awenza ngazo umsebenzi wakhe. Kulo mongo, ubuza umbuzo olandelayo: "Umchaza kanjani umholi oqotho?" U-Gómez López uthi lona ngumuntu okwazi ukubeka eceleni izinzuzo zakhe siqu ukuze avune izimpumelelo zeqembu lakhe.
Futhi, Incwadi kukhulunywa ngayo kusisekelo esiyisisekelo: umholi kufanele abe yisibonelo ngokwamagugu, izimo zengqondo kanye nokuziphatha okuhle nokukhuthala.. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba umholi oqotho ngokuvamile kunezinzuzo zako siqu, ngoba noma yimuphi umhlanganyeli, umphakeli noma umlingani osebenza nomuntu ohambisana nale ncazelo uzombona njengomuntu onokwethenjelwa nonokwethenjelwa, okubangela impendulo evumayo.
Imisho
- “Umholi oqotho ngumuntu onethonya elinikezwa abanye njengophawu lokuhlonishwa kwegunya lethu lokuziphatha. Igunya lokuziphatha elivela ekukholweni okusifanele kanye nokwethenjwa esikukhuthazayo kulabo abasizungezile.
- "Umholi uyacabanga bese ethi 'Thina', eluleka, aqondise futhi aqondise. Ufaka umdlandla, ucabanga ngobumbano, wabelane ngezimpumelelo zakhe, uyabakhathalela abantu, unamandla, unxusa igunya lokuziphatha, uyathuthuka futhi alawule, uyashesha, usebenza njengeqembu futhi ulalela abanye.
